{"id":62,"date":"2016-11-01T20:59:05","date_gmt":"2016-11-01T20:59:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tjscafe.com\/eclectic\/?p=62"},"modified":"2019-12-12T16:40:08","modified_gmt":"2019-12-12T21:40:08","slug":"can-music-change-the-world","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tjscafe.com\/eclectic\/2016\/11\/01\/can-music-change-the-world\/","title":{"rendered":"Can Music Change the World?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Above & Beyond believes it\u00a0can<\/h2>\n

(Originally published on Medium<\/a> and re-posted here – just in case Medium disappears.)<\/em><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve always been a fan of\u00a0EDM<\/a>, but only recently discovered Above & Beyond. A friend and colleague invited me to a show and told me that the experience would be life changing. I listened to some of their tracks and really enjoyed it, but didn\u2019t see how it could be as powerful as he said. At the same time, I was more than willing to give it a try, so I bought a ticket. He began peppering me with interesting, but odd, statements about my Anjuna Family and how I needed to prepare for my journey to the other side. I wasn\u2019t sure if he was crazy or if I was completely missing the point.<\/p>\n

I soon found out the truth. And you should explore this, too.<\/em><\/p>\n

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Music is the Only Language We All Understand<\/h4>\n
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The event we attended was Halloween weekend in NYC at a venue called Pier 94. They effectively renamed it\u00a0Pier of Fear\u00a0<\/em>for the holiday and I was prepared to see the usual EDM costumes plus even more since attendees were invited to dress for Halloween as well. I wasn\u2019t disappointed.<\/p>\n

But first, our small group of four gathered at Kevin\u2019s apartment to get into the mood. There I met Erin and Bailey and I immediately connected with both of them\u200a\u2014\u200awhich is a good thing since I was the newbie in the group. We had a little wine, put on some flash and glitter tattoos, and packed our pockets with electrolytes and vitamins before preparing to head to the venue. One last thing\u200a\u2014\u200abefore departure Erin lead us through a round of gratitudes and we all committed to the group so each individual could feel safe and comfortable in the journey ahead. I found the group commitment to be a valuable and wonderful component as you\u2019ll soon understand.<\/p>\n

My Anjuna\u00a0Family<\/h4>\n
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Knowing that we\u2019d be in a hot, sweaty, swarm of bodies most of the night, we dressed in light and comfortable clothing determined to fight the chilly night as we waited outside to pass security checks. It was cold out there, but worth it as we were much more comfortable the rest of the night inside. And I still don\u2019t know how the folks in polyester fur costumes do it!<\/p>\n

So let\u2019s get the first curiosity out of the way now\u200a\u2014\u200aAnjuna Family. Kevin had kept referring to our group as our\u00a0Anjuna Family<\/em>\u00a0and I really had no idea what he was talking about. I could have looked this up on the Internet, but I didn\u2019t. I now know that A&B\u2019s record label is\u00a0Anjunabeats<\/a>and\u00a0Anjuna<\/a>\u00a0is a place in India where Trance festivals take place, so there\u2019s a spiritual connection to the music. Our 4-person Anjuna Family became very tight, very quickly as we entered the venue. Whenever we moved around, we always held hands to ensure we stayed together. This was part of our earlier commitment to the group and was the first of many powerful moments for me as I could feel each of them through our contact. It was unique\u200a\u2014\u200aconnecting so strongly to these three other people, two of which I just met. Yet it felt very natural and very comfortable. Suddenly the energy of the 3,000+ people in the venue felt like a small part of our group rather than a mob that might act against us.<\/p>\n

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Small Moments and Favorite\u00a0Frames<\/h4>\n
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My wife often asks me about my\u00a0Favorite Frames<\/em>\u200a\u2014\u200athe specific moments that make something extra special. A good example is when a loved one unwraps a present and their expression of surprise and joy is truly pure. That\u2019s a favorite frame. I had many of these over the course of the show and I\u2019ll mention them as they come up. Clearly, that moment we all bonded together at the venue to push through the crowd to find\u00a0our\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>spot was a favorite frame. And favorite frames fit nicely with A&B\u2019s message LIFE IS MADE OF SMALL MOMENTS LIKE THESE.<\/p>\n

Reframing<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0can also be important. We found a spot and started to drop into the music of Grum, one of the opening acts. We were enjoying the music, but as A&B\u2019s set approached, more people were jockeying for better spots closer to the stage and we were getting bounced around like pinballs. This is pretty typical at a sold out show like this, but can also become really distracting and annoying. After grimacing a number of times as people plowed through us, I looked to my immediate Anjuna Family and said, \u201cWe\u2019re all in this together and from this point forward, when I get bumped or pushed, I\u2019m going to take that energy and channel it into my enjoyment of the show.\u201d Reframing this really helped\u200a\u2014\u200athe shoving didn\u2019t stop, but my mood was quite a bit better!<\/p>\n

The Tide is\u00a0Turning<\/h4>\n
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Grum\u2019s set was complete. There was screaming, cheering, clapping\u2026 and a notable push as each person tried to get a few inches closer to the stage. A woman behind me complained to her friend and he replied, \u201cit\u2019s going to get much worse!\u201d That statement had the potential to really harsh my buzz. But there wasn\u2019t a chance\u2026<\/p>\n

Before the crush became unbearable, Above & Beyond took the stage.\u00a0Everything stopped. Everyone was still.<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0It was only for a few seconds, but in those seconds, my Anjuna Family of four became an extended Anjuna Family of 3,000+. When the bodies started to move again, they were all moving to the music.<\/p>\n

TONIGHT IS ALL ABOUT SHARING OUR LOVE FOR THE SAME MUSIC<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

And in this initial moment of sharing, that statement felt so true and so real. We were not moving together, we were not moving in time, we were not a single source of movement; yet our movement was part of the music and no matter how each person was moving, the entire audience felt it\u200a\u2014\u200aand it felt good. There were still bumps, there were still shoves, but most were the product of overly enthusiastic dancers savoring the music they\u2019ve come to love. And suddenly all the bumps, all the contact\u200a\u2014\u200ait felt good<\/em><\/strong>! Each contact was another moment where the energy of the crowd was passed from one to another and on to the next. The physical touch and the energy between us became our bond. There was a oneness with the music and with each other, even if we each moved and danced differently. (Favorite Frame!)<\/p>\n

A Little\u00a0Levity<\/h4>\n

Before I proceed, here are two Favorite Frames that add a little levity to the event, and to this post.<\/p>\n

First, during the time we were getting bumped around, there was a moment that Bailey got bumped pretty hard. She sort of bounced off of me, looked up, shrugged, smiled and went back to dancing. I loved the reframing of that moment.<\/p>\n

Second, I would often turn around to find Erin behind me completely focused in her own zone. She wasn\u2019t holding any water and I always had some. On several occasions I held a bottle up to her face. At first she\u2019d sort of dance with the bottle. Then, in a moment of clarity, her eyes opened wide, she nodded vigorously, took the bottle, drank and said the word LIFEFORCE. This happened many times throughout the night.<\/p>\n

Same Same But Different<\/h4>\n
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Same Same But Different<\/em>\u00a0is a phrase commonly heard in Thailand. I\u2019ll skip its true meaning here, but some in the EDM community have adopted this to mean that we\u2019re all the same (enjoying the music, dancing, desiring oneness at the show) yet we\u2019re all different (ethnicity, geography, careers, life goals). It\u2019s a simple statement, but a profound one, too. I felt very SAME SAME with 3,000+ people who were very BUT DIFFERENT and this was a very, very satisfying feeling. Around the time this feeling was pouring over me, the following two messages came on screen:<\/p>\n

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And in that moment, there was no doubt that I was not alone. And no doubt that the power is within me to never feel alone in any challenge ever again. (Favorite Frame!)<\/p>\n

A New Consciousness?<\/h4>\n
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I want to be very clear here\u200a\u2014\u200athe feelings I took away from this experience are my own\u200a\u2014\u200athey do not belong to Above & Beyond. The messages from A&B didn\u2019t change my mind or change who I am. But they did change my perspective, and that\u2019s so important! What A&B does is create the ideal atmosphere for internal exploration; a time, a place and an energy that invites each person to look inside themselves to explore who they really are\u200a\u2014\u200aand who they want to be.<\/p>\n

\u201cThese messages didn\u2019t change my mind, they changed my perspective\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

See, I tend to be very pragmatic about life and, for me, the A&B experience is explained somewhere between the mystical and the scientific. Maybe I\u2019m being\u00a0too\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>grounded, but for me, if I allow something to be truly mystical, truly magical, I begin to lose touch with who I am. And, again, perhaps this is simply how everyone handles a shared experience similarly, yet differently.<\/p>\n

Is It\u00a0Alchemy?<\/h4>\n
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Let\u2019s get another perspective\u200a\u2014\u200ahere\u2019s how Erin sees it\u2026<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m listening to Anjunabeats Volume 7 again and thinking\u00a0\u2018I wonder if it\u2019s because they KNOW people roll their asses off at these things. Do they feed the already euphoric crowd with positive messages with the intention of raising consciousness?\u2019\u00a0<\/em>Because I honestly think they raised mine. It takes\u2026\u00a0everything<\/strong>\u2026 for me to say something like that. But I\u2019m over here knowing without a shred of doubt and with nothing but joy that everything I desire to do, have, and give is going to happen. It\u2019s just around the corner if it\u2019s not already here. I\u2019m experiencing a relationship to a certain kind of magic I\u2019ve never felt so authentically and to my core. I never expected it. It\u2019s either that night or some powerful cosmic alignment that landed at the same time as such a sweet and beautiful few hours that\u2019s shifting something.\u201d<\/p>\n

F\u200a\u2014\u200aking beautiful, right? After I read this, I texted Erin that she should go back and listen to the song\u00a0Alchemy<\/a>. Then I shared the chorus with her:<\/p>\n

It was alchemy
\nTo sing to me your freedom song
\nTo make love where there was none
\nAlchemy ~ now it\u2019s all gone
\nAnd she is the golden\u00a0one<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I think this blew her mind. (Favorite Frame!)<\/p>\n

What\u2019s most interesting to me is how our views of this experience aren\u2019t all that different and the outcome (the joy, the hope, the love)\u00a0truly are the same!<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0We got to the same place in different ways; personal ways. Maybe this really is alchemy.<\/p>\n

The Oneness, Yet Independence<\/h4>\n
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Everyone experiences this in their own personal way. And despite the fact that A&B shows are known to be transformative, I\u2019m sure there are plenty of fans that never experience the transcendence. Even in our family of four, there were clearly two very different experiences playing out over the course of the event.<\/p>\n

Kevin and Erin were sharing an experience that was very much introspective. I often saw them in a powerful embrace, eyes closed, bodies moving to the music. Whether the beat was slow or fast, they were in\u00a0their zone<\/em><\/strong>. They were still part of the collective, but their energy was focused within.<\/p>\n

Bailey and I were sharing an experience that was \u201cextrospective<\/a>\u201d (yes, actually a word) eyes wide open, exploring the stage, the crowd, each other. We danced together, we danced apart; sometimes all four of us commenced a group hug and dance, but even then, our focal points were very different.<\/p>\n

Was this bad or confusing? Not at all! For me, this was the perfect example of how there\u2019s a oneness\/sameness in the collective crowd, yet we\u2019re all following our own paths. For me, it was nothing short of a\u00a0Vision Quest<\/em>\u00a0and, for me at least, that journey required an outward view to build the collective trust needed to let my inner self explore freely.<\/p>\n

So, Can Music Change The\u00a0World?<\/h4>\n
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At one point there were a series of messages about the world at large. Without any political statements, the message was clear that our world is a mess. But the message wasn\u2019t negative, it was directional\u200a\u2014\u200atelling us that\u00a0we can change the world<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

A message said that the world needs more diversity while the song\u00a0We\u2019re All We Need<\/a>\u00a0played. What followed was, for me, the most powerful moment of my journey.<\/p>\n

As the house lights turned to illuminate the crowd, this message was displayed:<\/p>\n

YOU ARE ALL SO COLORFUL<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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LOOK AROUND YOU AT ALL THE COLORS<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Then the screen flashed a series of words representing those colors: PINK, BROWN, RED, BLACK, WHITE, PURPLE, etc.<\/p>\n

I looked around me and saw\u00a0so many incredibly different people<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0and, again, felt the oneness from each of them. How could there be such pain in the world? Here was a place where we were all sharing such positive energy, such love, such joy, and, most importantly,\u00a0such hope!\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>(ABSOLUTE MOST Favorite Frame!)<\/p>\n

Is This\u00a0Home?<\/h4>\n
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I set out documenting my experience walking a razor fine line between two key points. First, this experience, this journey, was powerful and will stay with me for a very long time. It was mystical, and it was euphoric. Second, to bring clarity to my friends and family that saw \u201coddly worded\u201d posts on Facebook about my transcendence and Anjuna Family. I want them to know that I didn\u2019t join a cult and I\u2019m still the same person that I was a week ago.<\/p>\n

But there\u2019s a problem here. My experience does sound like a cult and I may never be the same. Yet I still think I hit the mark because there is no cult and I\u2019m still the same. I\u2019ve just unlocked something from inside me. Something wonderful and something incredibly important these days as we face a strange and challenging world.<\/p>\n

So is this home? That\u2019s personal and individual. For me, I think I\u2019m still in a lifelong search for the fullest, most complete home. For me, it\u2019s a bit like Buddhist Nirvana\u200a\u2014\u200anever to be achieved, but always to be reaching for. I think I will have found\u00a0Home\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>only when the statement \u201cyou are so colorful\u201d truly has no impact because the entire world fully values its diversity.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s Your\u00a0Life<\/h4>\n
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As I said earlier when I referring to alchemy, I believe everything that I experienced came from within\u200a\u2014\u200ait just needed a path to get from my internal darkness to external illumination. And that is why I\u2019m confident that I\u2019m still the same me, even if I seem quite different.<\/p>\n

Same Same But Different.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

In the end, it\u2019s your life and you will always make the choices you want to make. Nothing can take away who you truly are. Not friends or family, not Above & Beyond, not drugs or life experiences, not politics or war, not a religion or a cult. Nope. They can steer you, they can guide you and they can open (and close) your mind. But ultimately, what makes you, YOU, is what you chose to do with these experiences.<\/p>\n

What Do You\u00a0Choose?<\/h4>\n

I choose hope.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

I choose joy.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

I choose LOVE.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

I leave you with my favorite verse (from\u00a0We\u2019re All We Need<\/a>) which kind of sums up this whole experience for me:<\/p>\n

I told you of a place that I had been
\nIt was dark and I was supremely alone
\nNo matter now if the compass fails again
\n\u2018\u0421ause in your love I built a\u00a0home<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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